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Posted by MuffinChops95
3 Feb 2013
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Oh guys I'm really not coping very well. Someone message me and entertain me? :(

Tiny things are getting me down, my best friend at college just told me she won't be able to pick me up and take me home on college days because she can't afford the petrol. DESPITE me giving her £10 a week which is more than enough considering I live a 5 minute drive from college... That may not seem important to most people but it's really depressed me because it's going to mess up my routine! I have possible borderline personality disorder so small things like that upset me dramatically. Something like that is enough to make me want to commit suicide, it's so horrible and I hate feeling like this, but I can't control the situation despite begging her and promising her money.

I can't put into words how upset I am :(

Muffinchops95

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John12
John12
3 Feb 2013
Nice friend do u suffer from anxiety then?

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MuffinChops95
3 Feb 2013
I don't think she's trying to be a bitch about it but I don't see why she can't give me lifts when I'm paying her more money than she needs for petrol :(

Yeah I'm 17 and have been diagnosed with severe generalized anxiety disorder, severe social anxiety, severe depression, borderline personality disorder, borderline anorexia (despite being overweight) and I'm possibly bipolar... Sucks to be me lol.

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John12
John12
3 Feb 2013
Sorry to hear that I have serve anxiety keep thinking I am dieing all the time what symptoms have you experienced?

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MuffinChops95
3 Feb 2013
Oh bless you! Mine are chronic anxieties to do with college mostly. I find anything involving social interaction very overwhelming but I do love my college work (horses) which is the only reason I'm still there! My attendance at college is crap and my place on the course is threatened. I'm treading fine lines to getting kicked out. The college don't want me to leave but the exam board only see the figures and don't care that I have mental health issues, which is really frustrating. The staff are being really supportive but at the same time they are saying I'm not doing good enough, I said I wanted to leave the course but they soon changed their tunes and wanted me to stay and work it out with them, which is good I suppose. I'm very self destructive and fragile which means small things can cause me to want to commit suicide, it's very complicated but touchy, nobody really knows how to handle it, not even myself lol!
So what makes you think you're dying all the time? Do you have the health conscious type of anxiety? (Health anxiety)

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John12
John12
3 Feb 2013
I'm sorry to hear that I suffer with socialising to know but I used to play rugby but the season finished then all this started and I am not sure if I have health anxiety most likely I just Feel like shit and. That all the time more at night

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marcusvanbreugel
marcusvanbreugel
3 Feb 2013
Dear Muffinchops95,

I am sorry to read that you are having some difficuties with your ride home. I hope you can talk to your friend and sort things out.

KIndest regards,
Marcus

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John12
John12
3 Feb 2013
Do you suffer from anxiety marcus

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marcusvanbreugel
marcusvanbreugel
3 Feb 2013
Dear John12,

I do. I am sorry to read that you are going through a challenging time.

Kindest regards,
Marcus

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John12
John12
3 Feb 2013
It's horrible I keep thinking I am dieing what physical symptoms have you suffered from if any

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marcusvanbreugel
marcusvanbreugel
3 Feb 2013
Dear John12,

I have had, to the best of my knowledge, tight stomach, bowel problems, possibly headaches, and possibly raised schoulders. Furthermore, a dry mouth.

Kindest regards,

Marcus

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John12
John12
3 Feb 2013
Do u have anxiety Marcus?

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marcusvanbreugel
marcusvanbreugel
3 Feb 2013
Dear John12,

I have also felt a sense of doom and of going to die however those feelings came from a possible panic attack which i was told i had in A and E.

As far as i have heard from a psychologist on the internet general anxiety disorder is different from a panic attack.

However, i am not a doctor and it would be best to talk to your GP.

Kindest regards,
Marcus

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fadedlizard
fadedlizard
3 Feb 2013
Hey you, you do not suffer from BPD - not for a few more days anyway til you get a diagnosis!!!! What you suffer from tonight is being pissed off!!! Possibly rightly so. Does your fiend mean she's struggling so much financially she won't be bringing her car to collage some days? If so perhaps you could walk/ catch bus together? Have you tried offering her another £2 or so if fuel has gone up? Does she want to go straight home or another way? If so it's a pain but not yr fault. Have you tried asking someone else for a lift? I know this is the last thing you need at the mo but it is a surmountable problem. Try not to let it shake you too much.
I hope you've managed to get some sleep.
Love
Lizard.xxx

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fadedlizard
fadedlizard
3 Feb 2013
Oh just spotted the typo - I meant your best friend obviously not fiend!!!!

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lou41
lou41
3 Feb 2013
Hey MC
Like FB has said about trying to talk to your friend. How do you feel about getting a bus to college. Would it stress you out? I know you feel like everyone is in your face at the mo............professional wise but speak to them about your rides being stopped. Remember to keep talking to them Pain i know but it will help you.
Love Lou. xxxxx

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Lindalou
Lindalou
3 Feb 2013
Lizard,you always give such good advice

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